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A lot of women are no different than the men they complain about day in and day out. This is a hill I’ve stood on for the past fourteen years, and one I’ll continue standing on until things change. Yesterday I was on Tiktok (I know) and I was listening to a woman speak about some things she’s learned in life. There were a lot of comments, and in my mind, I was sure they were women adding to the conversation. So I popped in. Was I right? No.

About two months ago, while I was in a session with one of my lovely clients talking about her dating life, she said, “Men need to start meeting me at my standards because all they do is give me crumbs.” She is a very beautiful, ambitious and successful woman. She’s got her own home, her own good career, she makes good money — all the things in that area. But her dating life now… that’s a whole other story.

What’s one thing you wish more women were honest with themselves about? I woke up with that question on my mind this morning. No clue where it came from, but in true me fashion, I sat my ass down and journaled about it. And what came out of me is something I think might help you.

I was going through some of my old journals last night. I always say I’ve lived a lot of lives, but gawt damn… flipping through those pages made me realize just how many. All these different versions of myself staring back at me in the form of different color ink and even different styles of penmanship. I’ve grown a lot, I can tell you that much.